12 Signs of Low Self-Esteem and How to Build It Up
12 signs of low self-esteem in how you think, act and relate to others, why it keeps itself going, and 9 practical, research-based ways to build it up.
How do you really see yourself? Measure your self-esteem in four areas β worth, confidence, self-acceptance and independence from approval.
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Where you fall from 0 to 100.
Sense of worth, confidence, self-acceptance and independence from approval.
Which area pulls your self-esteem down the most.
Small, realistic steps to feel better about yourself.
It takes about 5 minutes. Go with your first instinct: there are no right or wrong answers.
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How deeply you feel you matter and deserve respect, just as you are.
How much you trust yourself to handle challenges and get things done.
How comfortable you are with yourself, flaws and all.
How steady your sense of self stays when others disagree, criticize or don't notice you.
Your answers suggest low self-esteem right now. You may often doubt your worth, be hard on yourself and feel easily shaken by what others think.
Your self-esteem is in the middle range. You feel good about yourself in many ways, but certain situations, people or setbacks can still knock your confidence.
You have healthy self-esteem. You value yourself, trust your abilities and can handle criticism without losing your footing.
Your overall score runs from 0 to 100. 70 or more suggests healthy self-esteem, 41 to 69 a mixed level with a few soft spots, and 40 or less low self-esteem right now.
Below your score you'll see four areas: sense of worth, confidence in your abilities, self-acceptance and independence from approval. Your lowest area is the best place to start, and the tips in your result focus on small, realistic steps.
Self-esteem is how you evaluate yourself overall: whether you feel you're a person of worth. It's one of the most studied ideas in psychology. In the 1960s, sociologist Morris Rosenberg made it popular as a research topic, and later researchers such as Christopher Mruk described healthy self-esteem as a combination of two things: feeling worthy and feeling competent.
This test looks at four areas that often go together: your basic sense of worth, confidence in your abilities, self-acceptance, and how independent your self-esteem is from other people's approval. Half the statements are worded positively and half negatively, so your score reflects your real view of yourself rather than a habit of agreeing.
This test has 24 original statements written for TestMyPsyche. It isn't the Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale or any other official questionnaire. It's for self-reflection, not a diagnosis. If low self-esteem is affecting your mood or daily life, please talk to a doctor or qualified professional.
Self-esteem is your overall opinion of yourself β how much you value yourself and feel you matter. Healthy self-esteem means a realistic, steady sense of worth, not thinking you're better than others.
Common causes include harsh criticism or neglect in childhood, bullying, difficult relationships, long-term stress, and constant comparison with others. Low self-esteem is learned, which means it can also change.
Yes. Kinder self-talk, small achievable challenges, supportive relationships and noticing your successes can all build self-esteem over time. Therapy approaches such as CBT have good evidence for helping too.
No. Healthy self-esteem is calm and realistic, and it allows you to value others too. Narcissism involves an inflated sense of superiority and a need for admiration, which is often fragile underneath.
About 5 minutes for 24 statements.
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