15 Signs of Perfectionism and How to Ease Up on Yourself
15 signs of perfectionism in how you work, think and relate to others, the difference between healthy and unhealthy perfectionism, and 8 ways to ease up.
Are you a perfectionist? See how high your standards are, how much mistakes worry you, and whether your perfectionism helps or holds you back.
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Where you fall from 0 to 100.
High standards, fear of mistakes, self-criticism and pressure from others.
Whether your perfectionism mostly helps you or holds you back.
Ways to keep high standards while being kinder to yourself.
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How high you set the bar for yourself and how much effort you put into details.
How much getting things wrong worries you, and whether that worry slows you down.
How harshly you judge yourself when you fall short.
How much you feel others expect perfection from you, and how much their judgment matters.
You're not much of a perfectionist. You care about doing things well enough, but you don't let high standards or fear of mistakes run your life.
You have a moderate level of perfectionism. You care about quality and like to do things well, and most of the time you can still let go when it's good enough.
You show strong perfectionism. You set very high standards and may find mistakes, criticism and 'good enough' really hard to live with.
Your overall score runs from 0 to 100. 65 or more suggests strong perfectionism, 41 to 64 a moderate, mostly healthy level, and 40 or less a relaxed approach to standards and mistakes.
Below your score you'll see four areas. High standards on its own is usually healthy. Fear of mistakes, self-criticism and pressure from others are the parts linked to stress, so your highest of those three shows where being kinder to yourself will help most.
Psychologists have studied perfectionism since the 1970s. In the early 1990s, two research teams β Randy Frost and colleagues, and Paul Hewitt and Gordon Flett β showed that perfectionism has several parts, such as high personal standards, concern over mistakes and the feeling that others demand perfection.
Later research grouped these parts into two sides. Perfectionistic strivings (aiming high and working hard) are often linked to motivation and achievement. Perfectionistic concerns (fear of mistakes, harsh self-criticism and worry about others' judgment) are more closely linked to stress, procrastination and low mood. This test measures one area from the strivings side and three from the concerns side, so your four scores matter as much as your total.
This test has 24 original statements written for TestMyPsyche. It isn't an official perfectionism scale and isn't affiliated with any researchers. It's for self-reflection, not a diagnosis. If perfectionism is causing you lasting stress, anxiety or low mood, please talk to a doctor or qualified professional.
Perfectionism is the tendency to set extremely high standards for yourself and to judge yourself harshly when you don't meet them. It often comes with fear of mistakes and worry about what others think.
It depends on which side is stronger. Aiming high and working hard is often helpful. Fear of mistakes, harsh self-criticism and worry about others' judgment are linked to stress, procrastination and burnout.
Personality, family expectations, school and work pressure, and culture can all play a part. Research suggests perfectionism has been rising among young people in recent decades.
You don't need to stop caring about quality. Most people do best by keeping their high standards while practicing self-compassion, setting clear finish lines and treating mistakes as part of learning.
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